There are many ways to show love to your partners but why do we do it? It is to show them how much we care about them. It is how we show them that we do think of them and at times even put them before ourselves. I also believe what you put into a healthy relationship you will get back. Kind of like karma. 

Here are some tips on how I express love to my partner: 

Cook their favourite meal

They say the way to a mans heart is through their belly. What better way to show your gratitude than by making their favourite meal for them every now and then. It is a simple act and shows that you are thinking of their needs.

Keep each other healthy 

Most of us go through a stage where we put on the weight from being content with each other. Don't be mean or harsh about it. Research shows that people who are happy and in love generally gain weight. Keep each other accountable because you don't have to sacrifice your health just to be happy. Being healthy and fit will allow you both to be more confident, live longer and have the energy to do fun activities. 

Be vulnerable

Talk about those deep feelings when appropriate. Don't bring up during a fight. Bring it up at a time when you are connecting really well. If he is anything like my partner, he doesn't like to talk about those BIG EMOTIONS but just telling him you will always be there for him if he ever wants to talk is special on its own.

Flirt with each other

You may not be in the honeymoon phase anymore but that doesn't mean you cannot flirt and keep things playful. Step up your game and it may even lead to better sex instead of just 'doing it'. It most likely will awaken the lust that made you crazy about each other in the first place.  

Make time 

Life gets busy, especially when you both work and have children but making time for each other would have to be one of the biggest ways to express love. It does not have to be anything spectacular. It can be as simple as talking to them in the morning when you wake up, instead of checking your phone first.

Be forgiving

We all have flaws. His flaws will get on your nerves just as much as yours do his. It is never one sided. There will be times when you just want to scream at him but when it gets to that point, think to yourself that you love him and gently tell him how you feel. 

Date nights 

This goes hand in hand with making time for each other. It is exciting thinking you get to dress up and see your man looking all handsome. Go to your favourite restaurant and reminisce of all the good times and all the fun you have had over the years. It reawakens your soul and the love you have for them.  

So if you want to keep the love alive from the day you met to every other day in your future, think of ways that you can express love that is special. Love is a feeling and it is a choice. By expressing love through an ongoing commitment to bring joy to our loved ones, it enriches our own lives. 

Your love doesn't disappear but when you have been together for a long time sometimes you just get into a routine and forget to simply show them your love. Doing these above tips not only shows you are thinking of them, it reawakens your desire and love. It reawakens the fun.

Let me know how you show your love in the comments below. I love hearing other people's love stories. It makes my heart turn to mush. 

Catch ya, 

Emmylou